‘In the bedroom our roles are reversed’
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Robbert sometimes deliberately stirs up a fight, Julia watches gay porn and Vera swaps roles in the bedroom. These couples know what works in their bedroom.
Vera (39), three children aged 9, 7 and 4.
“Dad is the sweetest, the children always say. I am the strict one at home, the one who sets the rules. Jannes never raises his voice, doesn’t punish and is a real softie. Except in the bedroom. There he is the tough master who makes me crawl and beg.
“I love to submit to his demands”
I love to submit to him and his demands. Not that he’s raging with torture devices. But I enjoy a good spanking on my buttocks, bondage with scarves, whips and nipple clamps. The rougher Jannes gets, the more excited I get.”
Make-up
Robbert (36), son of 3, second child on the way.
“To claim that I sometimes quarrel with Martine on purpose might be going a bit too far. Yet. Secretly I occasionally push on consciously for the effect. After all, there is nothing quite as good as make-up sex. And nothing is more exciting than pulling my reluctant girlfriend towards me and caressing and hugging her in such a way that I feel her body completely relax and surrender to me. The resulting lovemaking always feels more intimate than usual.”
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Get in the mood
Julia (31), daughter of 2.
My guilty pleasure? It may sound perverted, but porn really turns me on. And in particular gay porn: both male/male and female/female. I’m nicely married, I don’t have any desire to have sex with a woman, but if I really want to get in the mood, nothing works better than watching a heavy porn movie on the laptop.
“’Gay porn really turns me on’”
I have no idea what my porn taste says about me. am i weird? Latent bi? Fortunately, my husband Don thinks it’s just funny. He still wants to watch two women making love, but he drops out when I put on my ‘stallion ball’. He then enjoys himself with me and enjoys my passion.”
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