‘We have little sex, but masturbate weekly to combat frustration’

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‘Masturbating is self-care’

In this episode you hear the story of Marcia, who doesn’t have sex with her husband very often, but does like to masturbate. “There is an unjustified stigma attached to masturbation. As if that’s something you only do when you’re desperately single and especially secretly have to do in a long-term relationship,” she says. “If I tell Hans I’m going to hang out the laundry, he knows enough. Then I just feel like just myself, without the hassle.”

Also listen: ‘A lovemaking can start in the morning and end at two in the morning’

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