These women are boosting their sex life

Marieke (34) and Arno (35) do it in the craziest places.

“It started as an exciting joke. We arrived at our French holiday home, the kids were in the pool and I said, ‘No one will see us in this garden, we can do it anywhere.’ Arno was immediately ready. Since then it has become a sport to have sex in exciting places. In the park while walking the dog, on an air mattress in the sea, I even took him once in a cafe, under the table. It gets a little compulsive. The children have not left yet when we think: where shall we do it now?”

Role play

Cathy (38) and Mario (44) role-play.

“I don’t parade through the bedroom in a nurse’s outfit, but Mario and I do find it exciting to put on plays. I come into the living room at night and say, “Oh, what are you doing, sir, my husband will be home in a minute.” He says: ‘I can’t help it ma’am, I saw you at the bakery this afternoon and want to know how you feel.’ So we act through a whole lovemaking. Delicious.”

The Best Dessert

Julie (41) and Gijs (42) visit a swingers club about four times a year.

“The first time was terrifying – what if we ran into parents from school: the teacher in a thong? – but once inside I quickly felt at ease. The atmosphere was so relaxed. Now that our lives revolve mainly around the children, I found it very exciting to see Gijs in an erotic setting.

The only downer: we walked into a room where so many couples were engaged that I ran into a wall of sex air. Bah. But in the little room where we could isolate ourselves, and choose with an open or closed curtain whether others were watching us, I discovered my voyeuristic side. The sparks fly in the bedroom for weeks after such an evening. In short: a sex club is more fun than a bar or restaurant, and you won’t get a tastier dessert anywhere.”

swinging

Sigrid (37) and Roel (40) have recently been registered on a swingers site.

“When we created our profile – sexy photos, exciting nicknames – we ripped each other’s clothes off within an hour. No idea if we’re really going to put our swingers plans into action, the thought of it is exciting. We are now chatting with two couples, but the idea that we are actually meeting with them still scares me for the time being. It’s so delicious already; after nine years of marriage we fantasize again. Eric’s laptop has been off limits to the kids ever since; before you know it, they’re clicking on our browsing history.”

Take good care of

Mirjam (40) and Ernst (45) sometimes have sex with a good friend.

“A week before she comes, we are already breaking up from the tension. We think about how we are going to pamper her, and we send the children out to stay. Grandpa and grandma understand that Ernst and I sometimes want to go out and sleep in. They have no idea.”

playing with fire

Tinka (40) and Julian (49) have an open relationship.

“We love each other, but we also make love to others. That’s how we’ve been doing it for seven years. With friends, we saw marriage after marriage shatter once their children grew up. We wanted to prevent that and asked ourselves: what do we really think is important in our marriage and how do we keep it exciting? Spiritual fidelity and honesty are sacred to us, but the idea of ​​never having sex with another person again didn’t make us happy. You don’t eat only peanut butter sandwiches for forty years, do you? Many friends think we’re playing with fire, we don’t think so. You fall in love not because you have sex with someone else, but because you are not happy in your relationship.”

Surprise

Carla (40) and Marnix (42) surprise each other with exciting things.

“I picked up Marnix from work. In the car home I showed him that I wasn’t wearing any panties. The idea of ​​me standing naked under my skirt in his office was extremely arousing. We try to surprise each other more often. I find a mini dildo in my work bag, with a postit: “I want you to wear this to your meeting, and a photo to prove it.” Then I quickly take a selfie on the toilet and pretend I actually had that thing in my pants. Sometimes you have to give reality a helping hand.”

Pleasure

Leonie (36) and Mink (40) followed a tantra course.

“’You should do it,’ said a friend. “Very good for your relationship.” So Mink and I got over our shame and went on a tantra course for an evening. The first in a series of three, but we never made it to the other two. We had such an uncontrollable giggle that we were sent out. In the evening we still had fantastic sex. Not because of the tantra, but because we had such fun.”

Taking time for each other

Jelena (39) and Samuel (42) have as a rule: never more than three days without sex.

“One night I looked at Samuel who had fallen asleep on the couch and realized we hadn’t had sex in three weeks. I suddenly missed him so much. I kissed him awake and we made love to the stars. So it wasn’t that hard to just make sense. “I miss you too,” Samuel said when I said I wanted more intimacy. Since then, we make sure that we never have sex for more than three days. Not that it always works, sometimes we’re so tired that we look at each other and say: ‘Tomorrow then?’ The main thing is that we consciously take time for each other.”

Immerse yourself in your feelings

Regina (38) and Don (48) take ecstasy to get in the mood.

“When the children stay with friends, we take a pill. Curtains closed, heating high and stark naked just being absorbed in your feelings. The sex we have then cannot be compared to anything. You see each other on such a different level, everything feels so much more intense.”

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The lubricant of your relationship

Hanna (38) and Phil (37) babysit once every two weeks.

“It’s so true that sex is the lubricant of your relationship. After we had three children in three years, we just cuddled and we didn’t talk at all. “I have sex with myself more often than with you,” Phil said one night. ouch. We decided to schedule a babysitter once every two weeks on Friday and make time for each other again. Sometimes we take time off and we just go into town or to the sauna for a day, sometimes we go out for dinner. Then I look at him and think: I can eat you. After such an evening we dive between the sheets for a wonderful lovemaking. Or not, but that will come at a different time. At least we see each other again as lovers instead of father and mother.”

wear something chic

Zeyneb (41) and Aadam (41) make themselves beautiful for each other.

“Aadam walks at home in slippers, if possible with sports socks. ‘Honey,’ I said a while ago, ‘it makes me limp spontaneously.’ He laughed so hard and said, “No, you look nice in those lounge pants.” I was shocked. He was right, we walked around like slobs. I threw those pants in the trash and bought three new lingerie sets. “Now you,” I said. Since then, we make ourselves nice for each other once a week. As soon as the kids are asleep, I go into the bathroom, change my makeup and put on something chic. Or I come home from work and find Aadam in a tight suit. If you stay attractive to each other, the sentence will come naturally.”

Attention

Tamara (39) and Bart (45) followed a massage course.

“We couldn’t have given each other a better gift than that massage course. What a party: you learn to touch each other in such a different way. We massage each other when we feel like making love, but also when one of us has a headache or is stressed. Being so attentive to each other’s bodies, that’s real intimacy.”

Slowly but certainly

Susanne (35) and Arfan (40) went to a sexologist.

“After two hellish deliveries I felt totally ruined. I felt no lust, I couldn’t get things hot, my clitoris seemed numb. After ruling out a physical cause, a sex therapist advised us to have sex for a while without fucking. It took a while, but slowly I relaxed because I knew it wouldn’t happen. Very slowly I blossomed again. Now, a year later, our sex life is back on track. We will get there.”

presents

Simone (38) and Silvan (47) have a suitcase full of sex attributes under the bed.

“Silvan was the one who hesitantly pulled out a present on a Friday night. It was a vibrator. My first ever and a more than welcome gift now that our sex life was so drowsy. We had the night of our lives and after that the gates of the dam were broken. There is now a box with a lock under our bed. That includes our collection. The best item: the WeVibe, a toy I wear in my panties that Sil can control remotely. The whip that I bought on a whim was a little less successful, but hey: one learns by doing.”

phone sex

Selma (33) and Joost (38) do it via smartphone.

“’Creep a little closer to me’, Joost appended one morning. He was once again abroad for work. ‘You feel wonderful,’ I sent back. We ended up in a fiery sex chat with a happy ending. Since then, we regularly engage in phone sex. Sometimes we call, other times via the app, sometimes we only send exciting photos. Not now, I sometimes think, I just changed a poo diaper. Then we pick up the thread a few hours later.”

This article was previously published in Kek Mama.

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