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‘People don’t tell you in advance about getting pregnant’

“Nobody talks about how complicated getting pregnant can be,” she writes Scary Mommy. “And that you can’t prepare for anything.”

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Surprise

Stacy knows better than anyone that having a baby is a game without fixed rules. ‘My daughter came as a complete surprise when after two miscarriages and years of trying we had already given up. Guess what? Nine months after her birth, I was pregnant again, this time with a son. ‘

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IVF

The blogger has friends who got pregnant on the first try, as well as friends who took years to have a baby. She knows people who underwent IVF treatment, adopted a child and put all their savings into fertility treatments. ‘As a mother who wants to have children, you blindly step into a pregnancy process, simply because you have no idea what the outcome will be: there is no set checklist that promises you a pregnancy.’

‘Don’t Give Up Hope’

“Paying attention to your diet, monitoring your ovulation and not smoking: of course you can increase the chance of a pregnancy,” Stacy continues. ‘But unfortunately that does not provide one hundred percent certainty either. So all I want to say to hopeful mothers is; don’t give up hope. Families are formed in so many different ways. And just because you’re not following a predictable path doesn’t mean you’re taking the wrong path. It’s your path. ‘

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