‘Our attic is the recording studio’

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One day she will tell her children honestly what she does for a living, but for now Jennifer is keeping it a secret that she dances naked for money.

Jennifer (34) is in a relationship with Jay (32) and is the mother of two daughters aged 4 and 3. She is active on OnlyFans, a social media platform on which erotic images are offered for a fee.

“I worked as a stripper until a few years ago. I was trained as a dancer, but that is simply not a dry living to earn.

When I just finished my education I did teach at a dance school here in town, but I just didn’t feel it. Then I would again be in front of a class with small children who were not taught to dance, or I would have grown women in front of me who mainly saw my lesson as an hour of relaxed movement and chatting. It was fun, but I couldn’t put my egg in it. And I earned next to nothing with it. Without side jobs I wouldn’t even have been able to pay my rent of 1100 euros at the time. I earned about 900 euros net at the dance school.

Striptease

At that time I was already dancing regularly in clubs and I started to expand that. When I was asked to give a striptease once, I had to cross quite a threshold for myself. My parents could barely cope with me dancing in a nightclub, knowing that I had clothes on. So they had better not know… I was asked together with a good friend. She has just a little more guts than me, so when she decided to do it, I also said yes. We have made agreements with each other in advance, but also with ourselves. We would go completely naked, but not allow ourselves to be touched. Being a lust object is fine, but only for the eye.

Stripping suited me better than I thought. I had no problem with my own nakedness in front of a group of men. In fact, it gave me a huge kick to see them go crazy at the sight of my body. I work hard for it: I always have a nice tan, I watch my diet and I exercise daily to stay in shape. When I was 21 I had a breast augmentation; I can just be there, I’m honest about that. It was nice to have a job that didn’t require me to work 40 hours to make a generous income; on average I earned 3500 euros net per month. The time I had left over I could spend with my friends, go for a nice walk with my dog ​​and enjoy a holiday.

Love at first sight

Over five years ago I met Jay at the gym. He was new to town and came to train for the first time. It was love at first sight. I am always very open about my profession, so also with him. He found it very interesting and wanted to know all about it. I didn’t feel the slightest bit of jealousy with him for a second. Rather, he was proud that men worshiped “his wife” and were even willing to pay for it. As long as I didn’t sleep with them, he was fine with everything.

For a long time I thought I would stay single forever. That I might have a boyfriend every now and then for a short period of time, but never get into a long-term relationship and certainly not start a family. The little tree animal story didn’t fit my lifestyle either, I thought. Until I met Jay. A kind of primal urge to procreate immediately came up in me. I wanted children with this man. And so it happened: within a few months I was pregnant – not quite planned, but more than desired.

“I couldn’t see myself standing in a strip club night after night with two small children”

I soon had to stop dancing, a pregnant woman simply does not appeal to the imagination of a group of excited men in a positive way. I was physically unable to do it at all. Jay has a good income and over the years I had built up a nice buffer of about 25,000 euros, so that I could afford a rest period twice. I enjoyed it, but at the same time I also started to look into other possibilities to earn money. I couldn’t see myself in a strip club night after night with two small children. The little house life had crept in on that front too; I wanted to put my children to bed myself and be fresh and rested for them when they woke up.

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OnlyFans

After the birth of our youngest, I danced for a while, but since a year and a half I have been active on OnlyFans and some other social media platforms. I bring erotic content there, often on request – always for a fee. Jay and I have converted a room in our attic into a studio where I do my recordings. I don’t make porn, sex is where I draw the line. I do dance in sexy lingerie or completely naked. In that respect, little has changed with my work as a stripper, I just don’t have the audience live in front of me anymore. A good video can keep me busy for hours, it really took me a while before I really mastered everything.

“I don’t make porn, sex is where I draw the line. I do dance in sexy lingerie or completely naked”

I now have a large fan base who pay well for me – something that I find only logical, after all I put a lot of time and energy into it. On average, I earn about 9,000 to 10,000 euros per month with a few days of work. I save a lot – I now have 44,000 euros in my account – but I also spend well. I have no problem paying for a designer bag of a few thousand euros.

Our daughters go to daycare three days a week, on those days I make my content. Jay took a day off work to help me. We always have a lot of fun together and such a working day often ends – even before we pick up the children again – with a love affair. I then managed to excite him with my dancing as much as my fans.

Keep things separate

While I’m open about my work, it’s not the first thing I tell people I’m just getting to know. In such a case I often stick to ‘content creator’ and are no longer asked. When the girls are old enough, I want to tell them honestly what I do for a living, but not yet. The attic room is my office, where they hardly ever go. If they are sick for a day and can’t go to the shelter, I don’t work. I can separate both things just fine, but not when they are at home. Then I’m a mother and I can’t bring myself to make a video for a fan with a heel fetish on request.

If only for the merits I want to keep doing this work for the time being; working three, sometimes four days, I earn much more than most people with more than full-time jobs will ever earn. And why not? There is enough clientele, also for older women. As long as you keep taking care of yourself, I always say. In any case, I never see myself ending up in an office, that is not for me.”

This article appears in Kek Mama 11-2022.

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