‘My husband and I haven’t had sex in two years’

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Claire (33), eight years in a relationship with Daniel and a son of 7. Claire has not had sex with Daniel for two years, but breaking up? She shouldn’t think about that. Just a boyfriend every now and then.

“I don’t want it that way anymore, I said to Daniel after he rolled off me. The entire lovemaking had lasted exactly three minutes and twenty seconds. Including foreplay. I had kept track of it on the clock radio.

Daniel hadn’t noticed my passive attitude. Sex with him is a must for me. Afterwards I informed him that I no longer wanted to have sex in this way. I wanted more passion in bed, longer foreplay, toys, role-playing for my part. That was two years ago now and also the last time we did it. Daniel nodded that he understood and never touched me again. He doesn’t have a high libido anyway.

To dream

The whole subject disappeared from the table. We still kissed each other, slept naked in the summer, but it remained with a hug and a kiss. I became more and more grumpy and that didn’t make the atmosphere at home any better. Every night I dreamed about steamy sex. In the end I went looking for it outside the door. I didn’t have to put in much effort for that. Put on a sexy skirt and tight top and during the evening four days, all men will immediately circle around you. In the schoolyard, fathers undressed me with their eyes.

It didn’t take long before it was snapped. First by a father I ended up in bed with on his daddy day. Later, another threesome with a friend of his followed. Since then I have had regular sex with all kinds of men. It’s that simple to decorate them. Most of those men are also married, which is nice because then they also benefit from discretion. My dates have one thing in common: they mean nothing. Nice for once or twice.

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Win win situation

No, I don’t think Daniel would think so easily, but what’s the alternative? We haven’t had sex for two years now. He can, I can’t. I don’t want to break up, I love him too much for that. I think I’m a nicer partner when I’m sexually attracted to. I am happier and argue less. Cheating is a win-win situation as far as I’m concerned.”

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