‘My boyfriend and I regularly go to a swingers club’
Linda (35), pedicurist, relationship with Lionel, mother of a daughter (12).
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“It’s dirty there, everyone does it with everyone and they are ordinary tokkies. I thought. But then Lionel and I were invited to a club by the father of a friend of my daughter’s. He knew we liked going to saunas and chatting about sex easily. He said that everything was possible, nothing had to be done and that we should just come and have a look.
Try everything once
In the end, Lionel and I took the plunge under the motto: try everything once in life. We drove to a well-known swingers club. Indeed, there are darkrooms, saunas where everyone sits together and gynecological chairs in which women are penetrated. But you can also dance in the disco, relax in the bubble bath and enjoy the buffets.
A lot of beautiful people come. Young girls, hip couples with toned bodies, tourists from England, France and Germany. You have a drink together and talk about the children and work. You wear your normal clothes until eleven o’clock, as soon as a buzzer goes off, everyone dresses in lingerie and you see many people disappear towards sex rooms.
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Lionel and I have been there about fifteen times now, but I’ve never had sex with anyone other than my own husband. We sometimes fantasize about a threesome with another woman and get quite aroused by other people making love, but we don’t participate. We do, however, always visit the tantra room, where you can massage each other and have very zen sex. It’s a bit like being in a porn movie. I feel like a woman in the club. It’s really just a fun night out, but more exciting.”
This article was previously published in Kek Mama.
