‘Sleeping naked is the tip for us to have sex more often’
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After all these years together, you can sometimes use some help in the bedroom. Especially when that baby vomit on your shirt and the chronic lack of sleep are anything but exciting.
Mila (33), married to Evert (35), mother of Felix (10) and Luca (8):
“Sleeping naked is the tip to have sex more often and faster. At least, it works like crazy for us. Until six months ago, hubby and I were both dressed in bed as if we were on a Himalayan expedition: I was wearing plaid flannel pajamas. Evert was wearing house pants with the crotch hanging down to his knees and an old T-shirt from the Egmond half marathon in 1998. Nice and warm, because we always sleep with the window wide open. Was also divine, but it was very sexless. It certainly didn’t invite us to any excitement.
“We often start the day with a morning seesaw”
The window is now ajar, we are both stark naked and we seek warmth together. As a result, we also connect much faster. We often start the day now with a morning snooze, because one of us already starts fiddling in the morning. Our average has increased from once every four weeks to four times a week.”
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Sexy piece of fabric
Julia (26), lives with Ben (25), mother of Benjamin (9 months):
“To transform from a mom who is on, caring and controlling all day into the sex pussy I once was, I literally need a disguise. In my shirt with wet nipple stains from feeding or with baby vomit, I feel far from provocative.
“With a piece of sexy fabric I automatically get in the right mood”
It helps to change into a lace bodysuit, thong with sheer slip dress or even completely out of my comfort zone as a nurse or Playboy bunny for lovemaking. With a piece of sexy fabric it is easier to leave the daily grind behind and I automatically get into the right mood. Fortunately Ben is not bothered by it at all, he is horny even in his work uniform.”
This article appears in Kek Mama 10-2022.
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