‘Since we had solo sex I feel fitter, sexier and freer’
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With a collection of sex toys that make many a sex shop jealous and whispered dirty talk, these couples are top notch happy.
Anita (37), relationship with Cees (40), she mother of Emma (10) and Sem (8), he father of Loïs (17) and Feline (15):
“For me masturbation and sexting has become the way to more meaning. I never used toys in my marriage, but since I’m with Cees and we don’t sleep together every night, I like to climax with Tarzan every now and then. Whether or not accompanied by text messages with dirty talk or his dick pics whispered by Cees.
Sexting
Since we had solo sex I feel fitter, sexier and freer. This is how I discovered which places I like and I can explain perfectly during a lovemaking with Cees where he should caress, bump or lick me. And precisely because I play with myself so often and we do sexting, I also feel more like the real thing. Normally we make love once a weekend, now it’s at least three times. Can we finally carry out all our fantasies and accumulated proposals.”
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Kimmy (29), married to Marc (29), mother of Bruce (2):
“Every month the postman delivers an exciting package here. My husband and I take turns surprising each other with a new one sextoy. We once started with a bottle of lubricant, now we own a collection that many a sex shop is jealous of. I have a beauty case full of vibrating and rotating toys.
“For extra spicy I have a ‘naughty’ drawer in the bedside table with whips, ropes and blindfolds”
Success numbers are the Satisfyer, both for me and him, a butt plug and a couples vibe. If we want extra spicy, I have a ‘naughty’ drawer in the bedside table with whips, ropes and blindfolds.”
This article appears in Kek Mama 10-2022.
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