‘I longed for that kinky sex from the past’
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Ellen is dating a married lover and Wendy only likes one type of man: a tad wrong. But life would be boring without the occasional sex adventure.
Wendy (34), mother of Eva (8) and Linn (6):
“In my younger years I only fell for one type of man. I describe him as ‘the pit bull’: tattoos, piercings, slightly wrong in his behavior and with a serious fear of commitment. Exciting, but not relationship material, nor suitable to fulfill my childhood wish. Still, I kept hanging on to such a man every time, because I thought he was so sexy.
Excellent father
Around the age of 25 my ovaries were rattling and I wanted to settle down. I immediately stopped scraping and started looking seriously for a father for my children. This time in the category ‘labrador’. Via via I started dating and eventually two daughters with Thomas. He met all the requirements: serious, responsible and sweet. An excellent father to Eva and Linn and faithful as a dog.
Slow sex life
Unfortunately, it turned out not to be the right one for me. He was too soft. I barely got any resistance. Our conversations and sex life were sluggish. After the birth of our second we got into a terrible rut. Two years ago we decided to part ways as good friends. Not long after, I contacted Ray, my last ex. I didn’t need anything more from him than his body. I longed for that kinky sex from back in the day.
“My girls couldn’t wish for a better dad, but he didn’t fit me”
Now we occasionally see each other at parties and on the weekends that Eva and Linn are with their father. I don’t regret choosing Thomas for a second, my girls couldn’t wish for a better dad, but he didn’t suit me.”
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married lover
Ellen (40), mother of Sam (13) and Liselot (10):
“In itself I am not doing anything wrong: I am neatly divorced and only have sex on the nights that my children are with their father.
“Sex with him makes it easier for me to maintain single parenting”
Only my lover is still married and that is of course far from okay. He wants to leave his wife one day, when his three children are a little older. Until then I enjoy the attention, love and the orgasms he gives me. Sex with him ensures that I can maintain single parenthood a lot better and happier.”
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