Does your sex life need a boost? 6 great tips

‘After the birth of our second child, I was so busy that I no longer had the time or desire for sex’, says Siobhan. ‘Until one night I read a sexy scene in a book. My libido went up spontaneously.’

Siobhan wondered how other mothers got in the mood again, between work, family life, and all the social obligations. ‘I spoke to a number of mothers and found out that for some women their cycle plays a major role. For example, someone noticed that she gets aroused faster in the days she ovulates. Women also indicated that they get more interested in sex if they regularly masturbate themselves.’

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Plan

Another tip she got from a woman: embrace your sexual fantasies. “One mother told me she fantasized about different people when she was with her husband. Not because she doesn’t find him sexy, but fantasies make the sex better, she thought.

There was also someone who regularly surfs to sex sites for women. She watches feminist porn, listens to audio erotica or a podcast with sexy stories from erotic novels. You understand: that has an aphrodisiac effect.’

Planning a sex night can also work, Siobhan says. “Doesn’t sound romantic, but a mother told me it works for her. She likes to give herself the time and space to get in the mood and it helps to dim the lights, take a bath and then hide under the sheets with her husband ‘according to plan’.’

Source: Scary Mommy

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