‘Before I could answer, my daughter (6) already did it’

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Are you stammering with shame on your cheeks how a baby comes into your belly, it turns out that the little rascal in front of you already knows it.

Cindy (39), mother of Micha (6) and Jolijn (5), pregnant with the third:

“My youngest wanted to know last month how it was possible that a baby came into your belly. Before I could answer, the six-year-old did it. Without batting an eyelid, she spooned up: ‘Daddy puts his pee in the mother’s pee, then seeds come out that swim to an egg and then you have a baby .’

“I literally stood there and watched it”

Jolijn listened to it and then nodded understandingly. On which both continued to play quietly with the Playmobil. I literally stood there and watched it.”

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What are you doing hard

Eefje (42), mother of Emma (9) and Sofie (3):

“Emma made me sweat and twist and stammer; somehow I found it quite difficult to tell my little sprout how her baby sister had come about. After I ended up quite cumbersome all the secrets of it the making of babies had told her, she said dryly: ‘Hey mom, I already know all that.’”

Give information

Talking to your child about sex may feel awkward, but sex education is extremely important. And we’re not just talking about the biological side or its dangers, such as an unplanned pregnancy or an STI. It is important to also highlight the positive and pleasant side of sex. When it comes to providing sex education, the sooner the better. But tailor the conversation to your child’s age. Also discuss the importance of giving permission, setting boundaries, and accepting others’. Sex is only okay if both parties agree.

A good start is half the work. Here you will find more tips for your child’s sex education or learn more about the importance of setting boundaries.

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