‘We have sex a lot more often since we started French kissing again’

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Sure, a quick kiss before going to work is very efficient, but it’s not really exciting. Aafke and Rob found out.

Aafke (34), lives with Rob (34), mother of Fay (6) and Kai (1):

“Somehow the French kiss had disappeared from our repertoire. We kissed throughout the day, but those were more casual kisses before bed, a cuddle on the couch, or goodbye kisses on the way to work. For real all the way kissing, as we did so often in our early years, hardly happened anymore. Not even when we make love.

“For real all the way kissing, as we did so often in our early years, was hardly possible anymore”

Then it was either oral sex or massage, but after that we focused on the favorite doggy position with vibrator. Very effective, because it allowed us both to quickly reach an orgasm and fall asleep. Since we are chronically sleep deprived, that is very tempting, but I missed the real excitement.

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French kissing

It wasn’t until we put the French kiss back on the program that I got much wetter and felt that real tickle in my gut again. Now we do it a lot more often. Nothing is as nice as tongue-tipping between washing up and then turning each other on so much that we immediately go to bed with the kids.”

This article appears in Kek Mama 10-2022.

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