Mama is an escort: ‘I find it very exciting to realize that I am in control’

“Sometimes during a how-was-you-weekend chat in the schoolyard I want to shake things up and really tell what I’ve been up to on Saturday night. How I dined with a businessman at a star restaurant for five hours and then spoiled him orally. Or how I spent the weekend in a French hotel room with a gentleman and lady and got paid royally for it. But I don’t. If I blow out of school, I’d have to move right away.

swinging

Four years ago, the children were six and eight, I left my husband. Our sex life had always been rather dull. In the end we lived like brother and sister. After the divorce I had to rediscover who I was and what I still wanted in life. I picked up my old profession as a real estate agent and built up a new circle of friends. I also wanted to make up for the damage sexually.

I registered on a swingers site, where you can also respond to erotic advertisements as a single woman. I agreed when the children were with their father. They were pure sex dates, fun for once or twice. Sometimes with men, sometimes with their wives. I was not looking for a permanent relationship, but for confirmation and a nice evening. It gave my ego a huge boost.

escort

I shared the juicy details of my escapades with my best friend. After hearing my stories for half a year, she asked why I didn’t ask for money for this. “What you do Amy is not much different from the work of a professional escort, only she still has money left over.” At first I shouted that it wouldn’t be for me, but something had triggered me. The more I thought about it, the more exciting the idea of ​​paid sex became. And not as a street prostitute, but in the higher segment, as Julia Roberts in pretty woman.

I googled for exclusive escort agencies and came across Society Service in Rotterdam. I saw profile pictures of the most beautiful models: slim, tight, 1.76 meters, cup C. I often get compliments on my good looks, but I was not twenty anymore. Nevertheless, I sent a cover letter. No you have, yes you can get. Marike, the owner told me later that she gets hundreds of letters a month, but mine stood out. I came across as spontaneous and intelligent and wrote that I was crazy about sex and especially the game of seduction and attraction. Coincidentally, she was looking for a slightly older woman, because there is also a demand for more mature escorts. After two job interviews I was allowed to start.

First time

I got a few styling tips: sexy, but not too. No low V-neck, but a blouse, skirt, pumps, neat and fresh. Of course I had to step over a threshold the first time, but I kept to myself that it was no different from the dates I had previously had via the swingers site. I threw my head back, took a deep breath and rang the bell at the given home address.

The client was specially selected for me, he knew it was my first time. He took my coat and poured me a drink. I sat down on the couch and looked around. He charged me €700 – the starting rate for two hours and sat down next to me. Gray hair, brown eyes, I certainly didn’t find him unattractive. The evening was also relaxed. After a massage we had sex and it went very naturally. It cost me no effort.

Pros

In any case, in the past three years I have not had a single time that a man or the sex didn’t appeal to me. I always see something nice or beautiful about someone. That can be a glint in the eye or a nice smile. I don’t look for minuses, but look for pluses. They are always there. I find the realization that I am in control is very exciting. I really enjoy the sex.

double life

My real name is not Amy, that’s my working name. I don’t tell you where I live, nor that I am a mother of two children. That’s not necessary either. For the customer, I am that desirable, single lady who sells houses during the day and indulges herself in beautiful lingerie in the evening.

At home nobody knows about my double life. Only two girlfriends and my cousin Mark are aware. Mark jumps in when I’m booked in at the very last minute and sits up in terms of nanny. I fear that those around me would be taken aback if they heard that I do this work. Most people want to live a safe and stable life and know nothing about this kind of practice. That’s why I don’t burden my children, family, ex, neighbors or the mothers from school with my secret.

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Supplement

The money is nice, I’m not going to lie about that, but this job has to suit you. You have to love sex, dare to experiment and be interested in people. If you do it just for the euros, you’ll run into yourself. For me, the earnings are a bonus, allowing me to spoil the children with clothes, sports clubs, toys and vacations. It’s nice to have more air financially. I really enjoy earning my own money again and the escort work is quite a supplement to my salary. Especially if it’s a long evening and I’m also going out to dinner with a customer, I’ll grab a thousand euros. Yet my motivation lies in my own desire for excitement and adventure. I really really like it.

flow

Sex with a client is not a one-sided event. Most men also want me to have a good time and have an orgasm. I never have to fake it, I always get my money’s worth. If I’m booked for two or three hours, it doesn’t mean I have sex for three hours. Ha, then I would wear out quickly. You drink a glass, I give a massage, you chat. And sometimes you are in such a flow that the customer books another hour.

I’ve never been afraid. It makes a difference that I am affiliated with a reputable escort service. Addresses are checked, they are neat houses and luxury hotels. The clients are businessman, married, singles or couples who give me as a present to each other. I am not afraid of meeting acquaintances or a schoolyard father. Should it ever happen, we both have an interest in keeping our mouths shut.

Once there was a man I really liked. He had deep blue twinkle eyes and was super sexy. He booked me in about seven times in a year and a half and it was always fantastic. I just hopped in. I’m very sorry I don’t see him anymore. It felt so familiar and that made the sex extra delicious.

Clean slate

At the moment I am not in a relationship. I don’t need that either. My life is varied and exciting enough. I enjoy and grow every day. If I do come across the right one, I will stop this work immediately. And then I won’t be ashamed of anything. When you get to know someone, you both start with a clean slate. You don’t look back. You can be honest about your past with the right person. It doesn’t have to be an obstacle if you tell them that you just like sex a lot. Maybe one day I will confess it to my children, but only when they are ready and able to understand it.

Alibi

For now, I don’t see myself stopping this work yet. There is no one who suspects anything at home and I can combine it with my private life. The demand for older escorts is not that great. Sometimes I go out twice a week, sometimes I have no appointments for two months. The best alibi I have is my job. I work in real estate and I regularly have dinners and networking drinks. So no one is surprised at home when mom is out for dinner with a customer on Thursday evenings from seven to eleven o’clock. Even if I’m booked for an overnight dinner date, that’s not strange. Then I just go out with a friend and stay with her. My children love Mark and enjoy it when he comes to babysit.

My clothes don’t reveal anything either. The suit that I wear during the day can also serve during an exciting interlude in the afternoon. At most, an extra button will open. I keep a handbag in the car with condoms, massage oil, toys, candles and an extra set of lingerie.

And vice versa: if I go away with the children, if they have Christmas holidays or something important at school, I call the escort agency and let me on hold to make. It could just be that this job makes me a nicer mother because it gives me so much energy.”

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