‘I cheat with my boss and my husband knows nothing’

“Until I was 28 my life was filled with parties, festivals and dance parties. I was not so close to men. I estimate that I have had about twenty bed partners. And then I met Tijmen: sweet, reliable, responsible. I was instantly madly in love. Within a week we were living together and making up names for our future children.

It went very fast between us, but it also went well. As if we had known each other all our lives. We are now six years later, we have two daughters and a happy marriage. We have sex twice a week and our sex is tender, sweet, romantic, cozy, but never really exciting and horny.

The game of seduction

Before I knew Tijmen, sex was about conquering and being conquered for me. That is now gone. I don’t have to use my body to get attention. Tijmen tells me every day how much he loves me. I think that’s great, but it’s not really exciting in the bedroom. If I just point at him, he’s ready. I miss the game of seduction. I play that game at work. I am behind the desk of a hospital clinic.

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A kick

My boss – one of the medical specialists – and I have been flirting for two years now and recently we have gone even further. I wear exciting lingerie under my white coat, my boss always comes up with a reason why he wants to see me. Then he takes me to the treatment room, closes the curtain and we kiss. We are not yet all the way gone, but it makes little difference and I would like to. This gives me a kick that I don’t want to miss anymore. I’m sorry that I’m cheating on my husband, but I just talk to myself because I have no feelings for my boss. It’s ordinary lust. ”

This article has previously appeared in Kek Mama.

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