Fishnet stockings, a black dress and no slip, so I had to buy a magazine
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Jocelyn (34), married to Ricardo (35), mother of Sydney (8) and Joey (4):
“Imagination is the best fantasy and therefore the ultimate prelude to a fantastic lovemaking. My husband Ricardo and I love role-playing with matching clothes and toys. No childish fancy dress parties or carnivalesque costumes, but really sexy outfits that arouse lust. I now have a drawer full of kinky, adventurous and romantic ‘romper suits’. For inspiration, I like to look at the EasyToys site. There I find spicy lingerie, but also tight dresses, catsuits and schoolgirl costumes.
I’ve always loved sex, but if you’ve been together for almost twenty years and have two children, you don’t get 1,2,3 aroused from a French kiss anymore. Ricardo and I need more than just a seductive look. We know each other from 3 havo. We started dating and have been together ever since. Our relationship is fine and I can’t complain about Ricardo as a lover. He is tender and not selfish at all, always makes me cum. But to start a lovemaking and get in the right mood, let’s first stimulate all our senses.
Toys help, like my purple bumping rabbit vibrator and G-spot vibrator. As well as romantic music and candlelight. But we only really get into the mood when I play a sexy role in the bedroom. For this I use the EasyToys webshop where I can anonymously pick out naughty packages. I have quite a curvy body, so I can’t succeed everywhere and I don’t feel like making nasty comments. But here they also have large sizes.
I already own quite a few suits: a black catsuit with an open crotch and open cups. Fishnet stockings, suspenders and sheer string body. But also themed packs for when we go a little further and want to play a real game. My favorite is my Britney Spears schoolgirl costume and sexy nurse outfit. My anticipation already starts in the bathroom. I find it super exciting to change my makeup and hair so that I really transform from Jocelyn-the-mom-of-Sydney-and-Joey, to Jocelyn-dushi-from-Ricardo.
One of the last times, Ricardo went one step further. He challenged me: would I dare to go out in character? I was allowed to keep my coat on, but underneath I had to wear a black dress without a slip and with black fishnet stockings and high heels. Then I was instructed to buy a magazine from a nearby store. Ricardo walked beside me so he could follow other people’s eyes on me. I found it terrifying to go out on the street like this, but also exciting, because only we knew what I was (not) wearing. Fortunately we did not meet any neighbors or acquaintances, but we thought it was super exciting. It resulted in a lovemaking that we will live on for a long time to come!”
Do you want to read more about how you can stimulate your imagination? In October, the Advent calendar is central to EasyToys and that is celebrated with six weeks of fun. Look at easytoys.nl for all the exciting fantasies and let yourself be completely carried away.
