‘With a vibrating egg in, I scream louder with the music’
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Eva (31), has been living with Renzo (27), mother of Ziggy (2) and Lizzy (1) for five years
“The use of couples toys is still quite taboo. As if only women are allowed to use a toy to achieve an orgasm. I think it’s nonsense. I have some nice vibrators for myself, like a Bunny and a Tarzan, that help me reach a climax when I’m masturbating or after making out with my friend Renzo. But as a couple we also have a few joint toys that we use during or before sex.
Favorite is the WE-Vibe couples vibrator that provides us both with extra stimulation when we make love. But very special are those that we can operate remotely. Like the OhMiBod, a mini vibrator that I wear in my thong and which Renzo controls via his phone. Especially fun when we’re partying. Preferably at a festival.
Crazy Sexy Cool, Dance Valley, Lowlands. Renzo and I are crazy about urban, house, hip-hop and techno and trance. In the past we could be found at every major festival in the summer. Now that we have young kids, we pick out a few that we really want to go to. For two weekends in August we house the little ones with grandparents and go all out for our summer of love. A festival visit works for us as the ultimate foreplay, because of the combination of the music, the airy, sexy clothing, the exuberant being together and something extra.
Renzo likes to tease me by making the mini vibrator in my briefs vibrate louder or softer. I try to behave as normal as possible or I scream a little louder with the music. I love to seduce him with my body and tell him how excited I am with him and the toy, knowing that later at home we will have all the space and time for each other. Just like we used to do, when we weren’t parents to Ziggy and Lizzy yet. Then we also went to a party for hours and were so hyper because of the adrenaline and music that we didn’t want to sleep at home yet, but made love for hours. Whether or not with the help of some toys that kept us going.
In addition to special We-Vibe couples vibrator, we recently also purchased the Satisfyer Pro 4 Couples. This is especially for the G-spot and clitoris and pleasant for both the woman and the man. In any case, I always feel extra connected to Renzo when we make love, if we occasionally grab a duo toy then it seems as if we are literally tied to each other. They double the fun in bed! ”
Back to the buzz!
Now that the end of summer is in sight and we fill our days with work, study and sports, there seems to be less time left for fun. But nothing is less true! Generation Easy makes time. We owe it to ourselves. Don’t give the rut a chance and make time. For pleasure, for spontaneity and for each other. Work hard, play harder!
