‘Watching porn together almost always ends in a hot sex party’

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Want to rekindle your sex life after a big dip? Picking up the thread turned out to be more difficult than expected for Clarice and her husband, but they succeeded. With a helping hand from porna.

Clarice (45), married to Jasper (44), mother of Cis (8):

“After the birth of Cis, our sex life experienced a huge dip. I was filled with the baby, had a hellish birth with forceps delivery and cutting and had to recover physically. My lust was gone, cuddling with the baby was enough for me. Jasper didn’t insist either. He hadn’t recovered from the gory images of my ‘bottom’. It took a while before he could see that again as something that had brought and could bring us great pleasure.

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We caressed and kissed and cuddled, but I guess we haven’t done penetration in three years. Picking up that thread again proved difficult. Finally, we found the solution in porn. No hard or flat films, purely intended to excite men, but the so-called female friendly variant: porna. Erotic films with real couples and beautiful people, without fake moans and the cum-seeking eyes of the standard videos.

“By watching how another couple is doing, we automatically get inspired and participate”

I have a number of sites in the favorites on my tablet, such as LotteLust. If we want to have sex but we’re not in the right mood yet, it’s just a matter of watching the screen for fifteen minutes. By watching how another couple does it, we automatically get inspired and participate. Now we put on such a video twice a week and nine times out of ten it actually ends in a hot sex party.”

This article appears in Kek Mama 10-2022.

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