“Mama, which hole does the baby come out of?”

“My five-year-old daughter recently said it felt good to sleep with a simple blanket between her legs,” says Nikkya. “I never thought my child would tell me anything sexual at that age, but I’ve learned that it’s completely normal. Moreover, there is no better person than one of her parents to teach her about sexual health.’

Both of her daughters have been asking rather interesting questions for a year or two. ‘For example, how and why they were breastfed, or what intimate body parts are called’, explains Nikkya. “My wife and I always give clear and concise answers. We want them to know how their body works and not be ashamed of its natural functions.’

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The girls are now a bit older and they need a little more privacy. “They want to be alone in the bathroom, but still ask all sorts of questions: ‘How exactly does a baby come out of a vagina?’ or ‘Which hole does the baby come from?’

Whatever the question, Nikkya keeps explaining everything. “If they start taking an interest in masturbating, it’s also my job to let them know that it’s okay—provided they do it in a room where they’re alone.”

As far as she’s concerned, it’s never too early to start teaching your child about sexuality. “I want my children to feel heard, understood and accepted for who they are. I encourage them to come to us with questions by approaching the topic of sexuality calmly and without shame. And also explain to them – just as important – that their bodies are theirs alone. That they have the right to always say ‘no’ if someone touches them in a way they don’t like.’

Source: Scary Mommy