“The sexual chemistry between my ex and I apparently has not disappeared”
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Not being able to let go of your ex completely after the divorce, because despite the fact that you couldn’t get through a door: the sex was legendary.
Iris (39), mother of Aiden (10) and Zaineb (8):
“I met my current boyfriend Roeland through an internet dating site. I had just signed up for a day when he responded to my profile. At that time I had been separated from Tarik for two years, with whom I have two children.
Intimacy
I was cautiously looking for a relationship, because I missed intimacy. Sex life with my ex had always been great. Even more than that. We make love almost every day and I felt very much desired by him. Tarik was a passionate lover. Sometimes a foreplay with us lasted two hours and then we still had to start the deed.
“Sometimes a foreplay took us two hours and then we still had to start the deed”
We broke up due to problems with family, finances and child care, but sex has never been a breaking point in our relationship. Even when we were about to break up, we kept having sex.
Now with Roeland I am very happy. He is kind to me and my children and supports me whenever possible. We’ve been living together since Christmas and things are going great. Tarik also has a new relationship in which he is happy. Yet we don’t let go of each other completely.
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Fling
Last week Tarik came to bring the kids back after the weekend. When they were in bed, he continued to drink another glass of wine. Roeland was on night shift and was therefore not there. Tarik snuggled up next to me on the couch and we chatted about the kids and mutual partners. Whether it was the wine or the cozy atmosphere, suddenly we started kissing. Very intense. Very hungry, just like we used to do. We couldn’t stop and the sex was great as usual.
In the year after the divorce, Tarik and I sometimes slept together. But yes, I was single then and he had a fling now and then. Now he has a nice girlfriend and I Roeland and a slipper is not really an option. But apparently that sexual chemistry between us hasn’t disappeared.
“I really don’t ever want to go back to him. But oh my god, my ex is hot”
After Sunday I’m not in for the next time. Especially because I know that making love once doesn’t work with us. Before I know it I’m up to my neck again. I really never want to go back to him, we already tried twice and it was a disappointment. Roeland is a much better fit for me as a partner. But oh my god, my ex is hot.”
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